Written in a question and answer format, the Mentoring Answer Book addresses the questions and issues that all mentors have faced but that pose a special challenge to those who are new to the adventure:

  • “How can I get my mentee to open up to me?”
  • “How can I encourage my mentee to adopt a healthier
    diet?”
  • “My mentee does not have a phone….”
  • “How can I avoid activities that cost a lot of money?”
  • “I suspect that there may be abuse… .”
  • “My mentee is openly disrespectful to her parent.”
  • “What activities are good for a mentee with ADD/ADHD?”
  • “How do I discuss sexual issues with my mentee?” and many others that surface during the mentoring experience.

Chapter Titles:

What is Mentoring All About?
A synopsis of some how's and why's

Beginning Steps
Successful strategies for getting off to a solid start, staying on track

Manners, Hygiene, Health
Effective ways to foster positive change, self-esteem

Dollars and Sense
Straight talk about financial considerations

Where to Go…What to Do
Creativity-sparking ideas and helpful suggestions

Issues with Parents and Siblings
How experienced mentors have met the challenges that arise

Behavioral Matters
Tips for gleaning positive outcomes

Mental Health Issues
No-nonsense information for tackling sensitive subjects, from sex education to suicide

Academically Speaking
How to help your mentee achieve greater success in school

For more information, you can contact the Big Brothers Big Sisters of McHenry County at Phone: 815.385.3855 Fax: 815.385.3852